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If you have to ask that question then the answer is ‘yes’ your agent is probably lying to you. Notice I use the active ‘probably’?
In this series of articles you will learn:
- How to identify what is most important when choosing a Realtor.
- Why do I feel like a Deer in headlights?
- Learn if you chose a ‘Realtor’ or a’ Salesperson’
- What does Market price really mean to me?
There is a question every Realtor has been trained to use as an example to sell their service to a potential client. It goes something like this…
Seller/Buyer : “What is your commission on the sale?”
Realtor: “Well, my commission is one half of the whole – 6 or 7%”
Seller/Buyer: “Oh really? We only want to pay 5%”
Realtor: “If I were willing to give up MY money would you trust me with YOURS? I am not willing to negotiate my commission”
Wow! The Seller/Buyer answer is a given. “No I wouldn’t trust you with my money”. In sales you are supposed to get ‘yes’ answers… the psychological affect of this ‘no’ is actually an affirmation. Makes sense, but doesn’t it make you want to grab the Pepto?
Let’s analyze the basis for the above exchange. The Seller/Buyer (S/B) is trying to get something from the Realtor and immediately the Realtor is trying to protect himself from them. Could it be the S/B is trying to protect their self from the Realtor? Both are true and both are a natural human reaction when something is missing from the relationship. Trust.
This is a salesperson tactic using the ‘common sense approach’. Politicians use it all the time. When you are asked a question that you naturally say yes to, be cautious, you are working with a salesperson. This should perk up your ears. A salesperson wants yes answers for the psychological affect it will have in persuading you to make a decision that benefits them. A Realtor will ask you questions that require more thoughtful answers. Your thoughtful answers will create a working strategy the Realtor can use to help you get what you want.
If a Realtor feels it necessary to sell their services using psychological affirmation tactics, beware. It is highly probable they have no inclination to do what it is you are hiring them to do. That is…sell your home, strongly negotiating the price and terms that best suit your financial future and professionally manage the process the entire way. This is not to mention the investment of time and resources the Realtor should be investing in marketing your home…not selling themselves! Would you want someone that only focuses on themselves or someone who makes you their priority?
In a relationship where the Realtor is representing a Buyer there is no question of commission and the above scenario mentioned in Part 1 is meaningless. The Seller pays commission to both the selling agent and the listing agent 99.9% of the time
There are other Buyer:Realtor scenarios I will share in Parts 2 and 3. Part 4 of this series is for experienced Sellers. For now, I want to remind you that trust is the most important factor in the equation.